Showing posts with label Home. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Home. Show all posts

Sunday, October 28, 2012

Konichiwa from Tokyo-Narita

I'm sitting here at the Narita Airport in Tokyo, Japan. I'm on my way back to Korea after having had a one week visit back in Oregon. I've plopped down on the ground to charge my phone, which I'm using to write this very blog entry. People are giving me some pretty strange looks-I guess sitting along the wall of a busy walkway isn't conventional around here. But I don't care. In watching the passing people in return.

Passing me now is a campus couple. A campus couple in Korea is a couple wearing the same thing- the same sweatshirt, same hat or sometime even the same shoes. I guess they have campus couples in Japan too! Or maybe they are also headed back to Korea.

Stewardesses pass, either having just arrived off a flight or heading toward one that is departing. If they work for an Asian airline, you would never know the difference because of their high level of professionalism.

As I typed the above sentences, I heard the lyrics, "God bless America" being sung. When I looked up it was two, what I can only guess to be American hipster guys. They could use some voice work.

I hear various languages. Some people are in a rush, some are taking their time. Some look tired, some confused, some excited, and some like zombies.

Oh! A guy just passed with a grey mustache- one of those that are long and curl upward.

And there goes a girl running past! Hope she makes her flight.

Anyway, airports are an interesting place. I think that's what I'm getting at. If embraced, they can be an exciting part of traveling. They always make me feel nostalgic, probably why I suddenly had the urge to blog.

I also want to share some special memories from my visit home.

Will add photo descriptions later!





Tuesday, January 17, 2012

The Romance of Travel: Home and Back

1/11/12

There is something oh so very romantic about traveling- by bus, car, train, plane, bike- whatever.

One car, two planes, one bus, and one taxi and here I am, back in Korea after a much needed visit home. And I use the term "home" loosely because, really, I also consider Korea home. The romanticism of it all is something I finally came to understand on the bus from the airport to Anyang-si as I sat furthest in the back, iPod going, eyes peeled on the road-side scenery, and emotions everywhere.

It's a distinct feeling resulting from a number of things and I feel it every time I'm in transit.

It's the time travel.
The stepping out of one environment and into another.

It's leaving part of your heart in one place while physically traveling to another.
Wondering when you'll see a person next.
Wondering where those surrounding you are from and where they are going. Who/what are they leaving? Who/what are they going to see?

It's listening to music while in motion and forever attaching a song to a time and place.
The feeling of being alone in a rustling, chaotic place.
The points you must break the trance of solidarity and ask for help.
Realizing the place isn't all that chaotic after all.

It's the sense of everything being in slow motion as you take it all in.
The time to reflect on past and future happenings while feeling physically withdrawn from both.

It's difficult to leave, but there is a sense happiness and relief upon arrival.
It's difficult to adjust, but it happens regardless of the fight.

It's always bittersweet.
And now, in Korea, the magpies are out.

Some fond memories from the past two weeks:

The best welcoming from the best friends. This was after a 9 hour delay, which changed into an altered flight to Chicago instead of San Francisco. It was a whole lot of craziness, but I remained calm and good things kept happening- a Korean Air flight instead of United Airlines (SCORE), a surprise window seat during boarding after being told there were only aisles during check-in, and a last minute upgrade to first class on my second flight.


My brother, mom and me took a trip down to California the day after my arrival. Of course they repped the Korean Choco pies and there is nothing like blue skies and lemon trees. The best part, though, was my brother, uncle and I making our way into the mountains and onto the Pacific Crest Trail. I would seriously dedicate myself to that trail if I had a free couple-few months. 







My friend David took me to a Blazer game with some tickets he received from a work client. They were second row seats, might I add! Funny thing is, we were seated right behind the Denver bench. YEA RUDY. At half time, I met with Ms. Amanda and her new boyfriend and tried to catch up in what little time we had. 




It was weird not having Shannon home too, but she was with us in spirit and physically keeping Korea warm.



New Years Eve was amazing. We stayed in a fancy Portland hotel called the Nines and rode in a party bus that delivered us from bar to bar until the wee hours of the night. No better way to spend the New Year and no better people to do it with :)




Drank lots of good beer to make up for the months of Cass and Hite consumption. 



Mexican food and this lady named Jillian. 



Caught up with the grad school homies, but was missing the very special Julia. 



Spent plenty of time with my favorite woman in the world...my mom. 



On my last night in town, Amy and I were devoted to the idea of going 80's dancing at the Crystal. The boys weren't having it (although Byron and Dennis) did eventually agree, so we had a dance party at AJs. It went well with the going away BBQ. Can't express how thankful I am to have such a great group of friends. 




Not pictured are so many other wonderful happenings- deep conversations, a delicious Thai dinner, all of the weird things that happen when families get together, my kitties, and so much more. 


Totally refreshed. 

Friday, August 26, 2011

The Double Life: A Visit Home

Let me introduce you to the half of my double life that I visited during my vacation. It surprised me how quickly I settled back into it and how easily old routines emerged. I had known that I was learning a lot about myself basically living a double life away from home, but something my mom mentioned during a drive from California back up to Oregon resonated. She explained how much she learns about herself with each trip to California to visit her family. It wasn't immediately after, but as my time in the U.S. grew short and my reflective switch turned on, I noticed the same was true for me during my visit home. I learned that I'm over a lot of internal and external conflict that I had previously though still bothered me, but not over some things that I had previously forgotten.

Most importantly, though, I got my dosage of my friends, family, and animals. A wedding, two birthday, BBQs, nights out and in, Margarita dates, homemade Thai food, coffee times, dog walks, hikes, etc. filled my three weeks that once seemed would be too short, but that turned out to be satisfactory (of course, I would have appreciated more time). On my last night, I remember coming home from a BBQ with my friends and thinking how wonderful they make me feel. Then I began packing and saw the perfectly folded shirt that my mom had mended and already packed for me. An enormous wave of gratitude swept over me. I forget it sometimes and to others it may not be obviouse, but I do have the perfect family and the perfect friends and  this was the most valuable reminder I took from a wonderful vacation to the missed half of my double life.I think I'm ready to continue with the half that takes place in Korea and really hope that the two converge every now and then.

Some of my favorite photos:

A wedding! Of someone special <3

One of the people I missed the most with one of the things I missed the most.

Sauvie Island with best friends. Doesn't get better than lounging on a beach.


Since high school; it's absolutely crazy.

One of the best hikes of my life with the uncle on Brokeoff Mounta, Lassen Nat. Park.

3 generations. Two of the strongest, most beautiful women I know.

Reunion of graduate school girlfriends.





Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Shmitle

So lost in Anyang
Today I was lost and by lost, I mean I had absolutely no idea where on earth I was or how to get home. I was on one of my walking tours and after seeing about 7 of Anyang's wonderful parks, I realized that I had no idea where I was. Luckily, this only lasted for about 20 minutes until I spotted a 711 (yes, they are everywhere here). This was not just any 711, but the one next to a foreigner bar called "The Dugout" that I visited a few days back. At the 711, I bought some ice cream and ate it while I recharged my cellphone (you do that at mini-marts here). 

Afterward, I was starving and so I met Jake in Pyeonchong for some food. Usually when we decide to go out to eat, we choose any random restaurant out of the hundreds. Some have menus with photographs or English pronunciations and others do not. This one did not and so, I brought out my Korean/English dictionary and looked up the word "recommend." I then proceeded to point at the menu and then point to "recommend" in Korean. They cooked us up a dish of octopus, beef and vegetables. I wish I knew the name because it was delicious and I'd like to order it again. 

Recommended Meal




Dinner was excellent, but once full, all I could think about was cleaning my bathroom, the last un-cleaned room of my apartment. I'm not necessarily the neatest person, but dirt or dust just gross me out. I cannot bear to think about someone else’s skin particles setting in my living space, so naturally, I am out to clean every inch of my hair and dust ridden apartment. I find myself at the top of the mirror in my bathroom and BAM, there they are- NEEDLES. Are they medical needles? Or are they heroin/other hard drug needles? I do not know, but they appear to be in a hidden location and this freaked me out. SICK! I quickly disposed of them, but am pretty sure they will re-appear in my nightmares...

Tomorrow, I'm following a hiking trail to Seoul. I do not know how far I will travel, but it shall be quite interesting. Then, THEN, Shannon and Jeff are visiting on Friday and Saturday :)

And here, for you, some eye candy:

Art and Parks in Anyang
Fluttering High
Treats Everywhere=Koreas #1 Draw
Ready for my own.